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Pride, Patriotism stolen from KCK front porch

on Wednesday, 03 July 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates


“I love seeing them love each other,” Brooke said. “CJ loves seeing me and Brandi love each other. And Brandi loves seeing me and CJ love each other. We all love, love and it’s infinite.”

19 07 04

Japanese Bondage Shibari Is The Oldest New Kink On Instagram

on Tuesday, 02 July 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates


Shibari is an intricate form of Japanese erotic bondage in which men and women are tied and suspended by ropes. While it’s often practiced by those who consider it to be a fetish, it can also be used to both stimulate and relax the mind.

19 07 02

"I felt dissatisfied in my marriage. So I suggested we introduce polyamory."

on Tuesday, 02 July 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates

Mamma Mia

"It’s this part of polyamory that I find most fascinating, most liberating - while I do not know how I’ll feel as our comfort zone of each other expands to fold in other people, I do know that I have the tools for dealing with those feelings in a healthy way. Instead of falling prey to societal conditioning, I am looking at the vastness of my internal world and asking the hard questions. Why does this make you sad? What are you afraid of? Is this really how you feel? What’s underneath that feeling?"

 19 07 01 1

Vlogger Khadeen Ellis Weighs In On Open Marriages & Polyamory In The Black Community

on Sunday, 30 June 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates


"If it works for you and your spouse, or your partner, so be it. I think the biggest issue with relationships is having the outside noise that drowns what it is you two have decided on. If this is what you two decided on, because it works for the both of you, and it makes you happy, do it."

19 06 30


on Saturday, 29 June 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates

Pacific Standard

Who decides what a group of queer individuals should look like? How do other queers intuit what is "appropriate" and what is not? Matthew J. Phillips, a writer and literature professor, saw the danger in those tweets above: "To argue—falsely—that [seeing BDSM gear] is a violation of your consent is to argue that the public sphere must be policed and certain expressions of behavior and sexuality excluded," Phillips wrote. The argument in favor of respectability politics at Pride events is quintessential, Phillips says, of the "cis-hetero-patriarchy"—a powerful social apparatus that legislates what is normal and what is not among sexuality and expression. It's similarly depressing to see LGBTQ+ individuals using children as rhetorical props, since an imagined threat to children has been, for centuries, the easiest way to convince the public to dehumanize queer people.

 19 06 29


The 'Red Table Talk' Keeps It All The Way Real About Polyamory And Threesomes In A New Episode

on Thursday, 27 June 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates


“I love men and women equally,” Willow continues. “So, I would definitely want one man and one woman. I feel like I could be polyfidelitous with those two people. I’m not the kind of person that is constantly looking for new sexual experiences. I focus a lot on the emotional connection, and I feel like if I were to find two people of the different genders that I really connected with and we had a romantic and sexual connection, I don’t feel like I would feel the need to try to go find more.”

19 06 27

The ‘free love’ utopia behind your forks and knives

on Saturday, 22 June 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates


Oneida was founded in 1848 by John Humphrey Noyes, a former theological student who believed that paradise could be found on Earth through nontraditional sexual and familial structures. This included communal child raising; “complex marriage,” a term Noyes invented to describe how all Oneidans were married to one another; and sexual rituals, like male continence. Noyes built an enormous mansion in upstate New York for his “family” and amassed hundreds of followers. For years, the community succeeded. But after Noyes died, the community pivoted—into a thriving business.

19 06 22

BDSM as a Tonic for Serious Illness

on Friday, 21 June 2019. Posted in Front Page Headline, Media Updates

Scientific American

This broadly accepting community facilitates connections that can help a person fight against the often alienating experience of illness. Where many of us assume vanilla sex between heterosexual partners to be a private matter, we recognize that kink, BDSM and queer sex have long been grounded in communities of advocacy, activism and mutual support. That isn’t to say that every person feels connected immediately when they discover their sexuality, but it is to say that the communities are there to be discovered, and they can be lifesavers.

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